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There was a strange feeling to wake up from the bed where I had been sleeping the previous night. Since my dad passed away, I had been sleeping with my only mom. In the school, I had my separate bed. As a little girl, I had never slept with the man on the same bed. I was still feeling shy that morning. Whenever I thought about the first night of my life with the man, I looked at my motherโs eyes.
For my surprise, there was no response from my mother. She slept with my father and then, they have together given a birth to me. Now, I am inheriting the cycle of sleeping with the man, a man who was not my choice but my motherโs.
In few days, I and my mom went to the school. We completed legal process of getting out of the school.
โThanks to all the teachers in the school. My daughter could learn till class nine because of all your support. Now, I have decided that I will take her home to help me. Without her father, life has becoming very difficult as I am becoming older year by year. I need my daughter to inherit the responsibilitiesโ, she spoke to the principal of our school.
โAma, it would be better for her to be kept in the school for few more years. Otherwise, she will regret. It is important for a girl to be educated if they are to become a good mother. But, if itโs your genuine request, you can take her with youโ, principal permitted my mother to take me home.
We were soon at the hostel where I had memories with my friends. When I reached near the corridor, there were few of my friends coming to see me.
โLhamo, are you joining the school today? We have been waiting for you. I hope you have recovered from the sickness?โ One of them said to me.
I had no answer. Should I tell them that I dropped school? Should I tell them that I am married to someone? I just remained silent.
โShe is not going to be a student anymore. I am taking her home. I would like to thank all of you for helping her during her difficult times. She will always remain grateful for having friends like you allโ, my mother spoke to them like a well-prepared farewell speech.
โAunty! Why are you taking her home? Is it because she is getting sick? I think itโs not a very interesting idea. There is a chance that she might recover fully from her sickness. We are always with her to supportโ, the bravest among my friends confronted my mother.
โI understand what you are trying to tell me dear. I know how much you worry about your friend but only few of you know that we have lost our father. As you can see, I am getting older and I need someone to look after me and our home. So, I had to take her along with me. I am so sorry!โ My mother made it clear and soon, everyone was quiet. There was no further question.
โLhamo, we will always miss the kind of friend you had been to us. We will miss youโ, one of them hugged me.
โBe a good girl like you always are. Donโt forget to come to school sometimes to meet usโ, another hugged me.
โSometimes, prepare a delicious curry and come to have food with usโ, all of them burst into a loud laughter. She was the fattest friend among my group mates. She would be ready everyday to make someone laugh.
On that day, she made my mother to laugh among them.
My friends helped me bringing out my things such as mattress and blankets. I had a small suitcase with limited number of cloth washing soap. I handed those to my group mates.
In less than fifteen minutes, we could load all my things on a bolero. I was about to leave permanently from my second home.
I hugged all my mates and had to cry little. I didnโt know whether I could see them in the future or not. I would be a mother soon and a farmer. They would come as a teacher or lawyer or a doctor. I just ended the journey to all these professions.
I sat at the back seat of bolero. I could not stop crying for a while. My mother was looking at me from the mirror.
โLhamo, you donโt need to cry. Everyone has a different way of leading a life. The end of school days doesnโt mean the end of lifeโ, my mother spoke from the front.
โI also agree with your mom, Lhamo. There are thousands of graduates who could not get into government jobs. Now, I think that going to school is waste of time. Parents have to waste lot of money on education and they come back home with nothing. You have made the right choice by listening to your mother. Everyone in our village is pleased by the step you have takenโ, the driver added to what my mom told me.
I decided not to answer. He, definitely didnโt know the feeling of leaving a school and friends. I remained silent as if I have completely agreed with his words.
We reached home and unloaded the things. Tashi helped us to unload the things from the vehicle. By the time we had our evening tea, the watch on my hand read eight past thirty.
โAma, I am thinking of moving to Thimphu after few months. As a Gomchen, we need more households to perform rituals. Many of my friends told me that they can earn a lot in Thimphu. After spending a year or two, we will come backโ. Gomchen Tashi was talking to my mom about his plan of making money.
Immediately, I thought that he was money-minded but I had to calm myself down. Gomchens in village donโt get to work like other men to make money. In some communities, they are not allowed to work in the fields. The only thing they could do was perform a ritual and earn money.
I was waiting for my motherโs response.
โIt is a good idea. In the village, we donโt have many households and you cannot earn well. Moreover, you cannot work for money as a lay monk. You can discuss with Lhamoโ. Mother left the final decision for me.
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